Solutions to your relationship problems:
increasing your wife's desire
... or your husband's one!
"How to convince my wife to more often make love?",
"How to stimulate my wife's sexual desire?", – are asking many sad and concerned correspondents.
Several answers obviously exist, to be adapted to any situation.
However, here are some useful ideas:
1. Always caring to be tidy, very neat on yourself and... clean (hair, teeth, nails, beard, pilosity); a fresh mouth, a fresh skin (smelling good), linen where you did not perspire, are some points to which a women always are sensitive. We, men, often forget it, we aren't alone to appreciate when our partner is seen to advantage, classy, sexy, "delectable".
2. It's useful to keep this in mind: despite what you may think about, seduction never begins in your bedroom: our first sexual organ is our brain...
Hence, you see, sexual arousing first takes place in our mind: kind words, soft gestures, a touch of... gallantry; some charming small attentions; a sincere compliment, – what kind of women would remain insensible to this art of seducing, so often neglected today?
3. Charm her: deep down in every woman's heart always remains a touch of romanticism. Taking it in account without tricks but showing her a sincere tenderness, is the best way, the 'sesame' you were looking for to awaken her tender interest.
4. If years have left their mark on your life as a couple, if habits became routine and somewhat wore off your feelings, if you forgot to daily maintain your 'garden of love', then a genuine contact between the two of you is maybe lost and desire vanished.
Why is it so important to maintain your 'garden of love'? Because, if falling in love is rather easy, to remain in love is a challenge like looking all the year long after a nice garden in bloom or keeping yourself in good physical shape. And how to do it?
By keeping at all price a good communication level, – a regular, frank and sincere one;
by sharing activities in common, projects, responsibilities, good moments... and duties;
by listening and replying to her various expectations, to her wishes and hopes, to her need to see you available for her, etc.
by showing yourself attentive, interested in her concerns as well as in her health, opinions, preferences and... happiness.
5. If these 'premises' are followed (and your mate isn't angry with you because of some frustrations), convincing her to accept an intercourse (or even to propose one) will seem much easier again. Like in your beginnings, you just need to think of seducing her.
6. She of course will appreciate all the more your intimate moments, since you'll be attentive to her pleasure.
And never forget it, a woman is « genetically » more sensitive to feelings, to the emotional side of lovemaking. Generally she'll prefer long intercourse. You'll find her much more sensuous when taking plenty of time, without any haste.
Long and passionate foreplay are more often than not the key of women's fancy for sensuality. Unfortunately, they so often are neglected by men in a hurry to satisfy their own desire... The intense pleasure felt during these moments thanks to their mate's caresses, kisses and soft words, makes easier and strengthens the pleasure they feel during intercourse itself - and their climax.
Why then should any healthy woman refuse to be at it again next time, - when the 'experience' was so thrilling??
7. Your wife's mental and physical conditions are of course important too.
Stressed, frustrated, anxious because of various concerns, exhausted by domestic chores, children or a recent pregnancy, etc., your wife can feel the impression "to have to always make more"!
This particular feeling is disastrous for her morale; intimacy then is no more a priority to her. In such case you'd be well advised to help her and to provide her with an outside help.
8. Another good idea is to be sure that twice a year, she consults her physician: hormonal diseases (particularly related to the thyroid, the ovaries or the suprarenal glands) are other possible origins of her apparent lack of interest for intimacy and of her possible sudden changes of mood.
9. Attention, do not misunderstand me: female lack of desire isn't of course limited to medical concerns alone, like hormonal deficiencies. It is as well related to various psychological and relational aspects: once again, don't wait to be in your bedroom to « seduce » her!
For example, this lack of desire can come from accumulated frustrations; or maybe also could be simply related to... having somebody else in mind.
In this event, you should have a calm conversation with her, showing your empathy and... comprehension (!), if you wish her to be sincere. Angriness aggressiveness never resolve such problems. On the contrary, communication and sincere love very often (curiously) are useful remedies or help in such situations.
Will these few simple and evident reminders have the merit to make you think how to incite your wife to share such good moments? It is my warmest wish.
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